Conflicts in marital life occur in case of disagreement, maladjustment, or difference between couples. In addition, marital conflicts can be attributed to couples’ disagreement on personal goals, motivations, values, or behavioral preferences. The importance of handling marital conflicts will be only perceived when their effects on physical, mental, and family health are taken into account
[1].
Couples’ behaviors during conflicts include a wide range. Some couples get caught up in a cycle of increasingly negative interactions. In the long term, this situation causes marital dissatisfaction and is associated with a higher rate of physical aggression
[2]. Marital conflicts and marital disturbances are widespread issues in many families, not only leading to the increased rates of divorce in developing countries but also causing psychosocial and psychological disorders in couples and their children
[3].
Bohler et al.
[4] define marital conflicts as disagreement, stressful and hostile interactions between a husband and wife, and disrespect and insult that may be accompanied by profanity
[5]. For Glasser
[6], marital conflicts are the results of a couple’s disharmony on the type of needs and the way they are satisfied, self-centeredness, difference in desires, behavioral schemas, and irresponsible behaviors in the marital relationship and marriage
[7].
The first signs of conflict include talking ironically, finding flaws, maintaining heavy silence, or criticizing and screaming
[8]. Marital conflicts can also be manifested in various forms, such as wife-beating, spousal misconduct, sexual abuse, lack of responsibility, illegitimate relationships, sexual assaults, and subtle controversies among husbands and wives
[9]. Among the consequences of marital conflicts are no psychological well-being
[10], insecure attachment style, severe psychiatric disorders (e.g., depression, anxiety disorders, and sexual abuse disorders), physical health problems
[11], high tension, chronic pains, and ischemic heart diseases
[10].
It seems that many variables can contribute to reducing couples’ conflicts, including the quality of interpersonal relationships. One of the most important and stable elements in strengthening the marital relationship and marital satisfaction is the quality of interpersonal communication
[12]. Intimate relationships, such as relationships between couples, are the foundation stone of marital success and communication quality
[13]. The quality of couples’ interpersonal relationships is a multidimensional concept that encompasses various aspects of relationships in couples, such as adjustment, satisfaction, happiness, cohesion, commitment, communication, and dialogue
[13].
In a review with multiple systematic principles, Lawrence et al. referred to five dimensions of interpersonal relationship quality, including emotional intimacy, quality of the sexual relationship, interpersonal support, ability to share the power of communication, and conflict management
[14]. People with poorer relationship quality have more depression and stress than individuals with better relationship quality; accordingly, both stress and depression impair a person’s immune function. Couples with better marital quality are more likely to use couples’ health care services
[15]. These couples will more frequently participate in housing, parenting, and financial issues. However, couples with poorer interpersonal communication quality exhibit higher levels of emotional violence, including behaviors, such as the humiliation of wife in public, threats, and insults
[14].
Changing couples' interactions and dialogues are important goals for most couple and family therapies. Many approaches have developed specific sets of interventions to bring partners into contact to change negative interactions into positive ones
[16]. Some types of couple therapy, such as structural couple therapy, emphasizing family structure rather than changing individuals to change families and creating inflexible :union:s (e.g., the presence of boundaries, such as a defined boundary, a strict boundary, and an uncertain boundary) result in a lack of flexibility in the quality of marital relationships
[17].
Bowenian couple therapy model has focused
on concepts, such as differentiation, triangles, emotional systems, and emotional triangles
[18]. Moreover, psychoanalytic attitude-based therapists, such as Freud, Firburn, and Winnicott, emphasized the unconscious, early memories, and internalized experiences with loved ones in relationships. In addition, the linear analysis model with an emphasis on the causal relationship in interactions
[19] has caused the aforementioned approaches not to be as effective as acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and emotionally-focused couple therapy (EFCT) in enhancing the quality of interpersonal relationships among couples with marital conflicts.
Almost all previous studies have analyzed the behavioral, cognitive, and emotional dimensions of variables in an analytic and one-dimensional way, and these three dimensions, considering the circular causality between them, have not been simultaneously and systematically studied regarding the relationships of distressed couples. The EFCT and ACT investigate all behavioral, cognitive, and emotional dimensions. The EFCT is a type
of short-term couple therapy (including 8-20 sessions) aimed at modifying spouse interactions by assisting spouses to identify and accept early unconscious emotions and resolve the conflicting patterns of marital conflicts.
Multiple studies have confirmed the effectiveness of EFCT. This type of couple therapy is based on the attachment theory, in which temporary insecure attachments (e.g., the fear of abandonment) and negative emotions, such as anger and aggression, can stem from challenges among spouses
[3]. Based on this therapeutic model developed by Dr. Sui Johnson and Leslie Greenberg in the 1980s and later popularized in the United States and around the world, firstly, the damaged cycles of the couple's relationships stop, and then new cycles are formed. Finally, the therapist deals with reinforcing new interactive cycles
[20].
The EFCT offers clinicians a technique to reduce conflicts by the establishment of a secure emotional connection. The theoretical basis of EFCT is rooted in the humanistic empirical perspectives of Roger and Pearl. The EFCT encompasses Guttmann’s empirical work on healthy communications versus unhealthy communications, each one showing a destructive interplay of the interactive cycles of criticism, defensiveness, and complaint among others so that women tend to criticize and complain, and men tend to be deterred and inhibited
[21]. A meta-analysis study of the four precise results of the EFCT approach showed 70-73% efficiency in the improvement of troubled relationships as well as a significant 90% improvement
[22]. Based on the EFCT approach, the emotional experiences of couples are identified and eventually improved by processing and reorganizing the interactive patterns that lead to couples' helplessness in marital relationships
[23].
Among the effective therapeutic interventions to improve the quality of interpersonal relationships in couples with marital conflicts, ACT therapists interpret love as a valued object. If spouses act on the basis of values according to which they marry, dialogue becomes easier in the ups and downs of life. In addition, value-based behaviors make couples happier in their relationships. The marital relationship in nature causes couples to encounter many ups and downs, and this is why flexibility in a relationship is so important. Furthermore, psychological flexibility, which is one of the goals of couples' therapy based on ACT, helps couples maintain marital intimacy.
From the perspective of treatment, psychological flexibility is based on acceptance and commitment that is the ability to communicate fully with the present and change or maintain behaviors in the service of important values of life
[24]. Furthermore, EFCT emphasizes increasing the interactive needs (i.e., the reconstruction of interactive patterns) of couples, achieving safe interpersonal relationships patterns and empathy, and enhancing flexibility and growth in couples with marital conflict
[21]. Therefore, both ACT and EFCT are utilized which are rooted in the third wave of behavioral therapies and can help enhance the quality of interpersonal relationships with better lives and feelings in couples with marital conflicts.
According to the literature, ACT led to a decrease in psychological inflexibility, self-criticism, increase in marital satisfaction, reduction of interpersonal psychological anxiety
[25], reduced infertility stress and psychological distress
[26], depression and suicidal thoughts
[27], and obsessive-compulsive disorder
[28]. Therefore, it seems that this therapeutic approach can be effective in the adjustment of couples' satisfaction. It is worth noting that multiple studies have shown that mindfulness techniques in ACT lead to observing and accepting emotions and escaping negative events (i.e., empirical avoidance) as they occur
[29]. Consequently, ACT help couples consciously increase their cognition and acceptance, use metaphors to experience negative thoughts and reactions related to marriage in new ways, provide an opportunity to clarify values and commitment to enhance the quality of couples' interpersonal relationships, and reduce psychological and interpersonal sufferings
[29].
According to the above-mentioned investigations and limited number of studies carried out on the effectiveness of ACT in the quality of interpersonal relationships in couples with marital conflict, the present study demonstrated that ACT was effective in improving the quality of interpersonal relationships among couples with marital conflicts. The ACT was developed and recognized by Steven Hayes (1987) at the University of Nevada, United States, in the 1980s. This therapeutic procedure is a form of cognitive-behavioral therapy based on functional contextualism and is rooted in a new theory about language and cognition which is a theory of mental relations framework
[30].
The ACT teaches couples to embrace their thoughts and feelings, choose new lifestyles, and take committed actions. The ACT includes six central processes leading to psychological flexibility. These six processes are acceptance versus avoidance, mindfulness (i.e., the consideration of self as the context) versus conceptualized self, relation of the present versus overcoming of the past and conceptualized future, dissonance versus cognitive blending, emphasis on values versus lack of clarity of values and their relation to them, and committed action versus isolation
[30-32]. The ACT is a therapeutic approach based on the evidence that combines mindfulness and acceptance procedures with commitment and behavioral changing techniques to enhance the goals of psychological flexibility
[33].
The ACT has the best evaluation with regard to its goals
. This type of treatment with a knowledge development strategy is called contextual behavioral knowledge
[34]. The goal of this treatment is to provide a meaningful and productive life by effectively controlling the pain, suffering, and stress that life has brought about. The ACT changes the relationship between troubled thoughts and feelings; accordingly, individuals do not consider them morbid symptoms and even learn that they are harmless
[35]. With this background in mind, the present study aimed to compare the effectiveness of two ACT and EFCT approaches in the quality of interpersonal relationships among couples with marital conflicts.
According to the literature, it seems that the strength of this study is that the effectiveness of ACT and EFCT in the quality of interpersonal relationships among couples with marital conflicts has not been studied and compared to date. Therefore, it is necessary to carry out further studies in this regard because many couples annually experience conflicts and they have to adapt to a great number of life changes and new emotional adjustments.
Objectives
The present study aimed to investigate the effectiveness of emotionally-focused couple therapy (EFCT) and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) in the quality of interpersonal relationships among couples with marital conflicts.
Materials and Methods
This was a semi-experimental study with a pretest-posttest design, follow-up test, and control group. The statistical population included all the conflicting couples referring to counseling centers of Tayebad, Iran, in the second half of 2017. At first, among the four counseling centers in Tayebad, two centers were randomly selected, and then 60 couples with marital conflict were referred for initial evaluation and completion of the marital conflicts questionnaire
. With regard to the cut-off score (i.e., a minimum of 42 and maximum of 168), 15 couples did not meet the criteria for entry into the study, and 45 couples (i.e., 15 couples in the ACT, 15 couples in the EFCT, and 15 couples in the control groups) were chosen through convenient sampling and randomly assigned to the experimental and control groups. Since 6 couples were unable to participate in therapeutic sessions, the data on 39 couples were statistically analyzed.
The inclusion criteria were marital conflicts, physical and mental health, minimum of diploma literacy, at least 2 years and a maximum of 10 years of living together, both couples attending the treatment sessions, living together and no decision on divorce, and no psychological disorders. The exclusion criteria were a wife or husband with no addictive or alcoholic spouse, with the use of psychiatric and psychoactive drugs, with a history of infidelity or extramarital affairs, with a physical disability or mental retardation, and identified during the treatment as not meeting the requirements of the study. Then, the first and second experimental groups received ACT and EFCT, respectively. In addition, the third group was placed on the waiting list.
After the end of the study in Mehraz Omid Behravan Consulting Center, all the three groups were subjected to a posttest, and the follow-up test was performed 2 months following the posttest. According to the obtained results of the present study, ACT was more effective in enhancing the quality of interpersonal relationships than EFCT. Therefore, the control group received the ACT intervention at the end of the study with ethical considerations. The current study was not registered in the Iranian Registry of Clinical Trials.
Marital Conflicts Questionnaire
Marital Conflicts Questionnaire is a 42-item self-report instrument designed to measure the dependent variable of marital conflict based on a clinical experience by Sanaei. The seven dimensions of this questionnaire are decreased cooperation, decreased sexual relationships, increased emotional reactions, increased children support, increased personal relationships with own's relatives, decreased family relationships with spouses' relatives and friends, and financial separation from each other. Questionnaire scoring is based on a 5-point Likert scale, including 1) never to 5) always. In this questionnaire, the minimum and maximum scores are considered 42 and 168, respectively. As the score increases, the conflicts increase and as the score decreases, the relationship has a higher quality. Dehghan Sefid kooh has reported the reliability of this questionnaire with a Cronbach's alpha coefficient of 0.71.
Interpersonal Relationships Quality
Interpersonal Relationships Quality (IRQ) was developed by Pierce et al. to measure the independent variable of interpersonal relationships quality in order to assess the quality of relationships with important people in life (i.e., parents, friends, and spouse). The IRQ consists of 25 items with three subscales, including perceived social support (7 items), interpersonal conflicts (12 items), and depth of relationships (6 items). It is rated based on a 4-point Likert scale with 1) no, 2) low, 3) average, and 4) high. In addition, the items 8-19 are inversely scored. In IRQ, the scores are within the range of 25-50 (i.e., couples with poor relationship quality), 50-62 (i.e., couples with moderate relationship quality), and 62 or higher (i.e., couples with high relationship quality). The content validity of IRQ has been confirmed by several psychology specialists. Pierce et al. has reported the test-retest reliability of IRQ within the range of 0.75-0.92.
Emotionally-Focused Couple Therapy
This treatment was firstly proposed by Johnson
[36]. Nine treatment sessions were held for EFCT twice a week for 90 min. The content of each treatment session is presented in Table 1.
Acceptance and Commitment Couple Therapy
This treatment has been proposed by Hayes et al.
[37]. Eight treatment sessions were held for ACT twice a week for 90 min. The content of each treatment session is shown in Table 2.